Biography,
Experience,
Specialties, & Orientation |
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I
first heard about Focusing from David and Rebecca Grudermeyer,
with whom I wrote Sensible Self-Help. These San Diego-area
psychotherapists had hired me to co-author their book about
the stages of emotional wounding and healing. They described
Focusing as one of their primary tools, and essential to the
healing process. I bought Focusing and a tape, but didn't
make any headway in teaching myself the technique.
Then, in 1994, as I planned a vacation to the San Francisco
Bay Area, I decided to see what was being offered at The Esalen
Institute in Big Sur. There in the catalog was Ann Weiser Cornell
and her weeklong Focusing workshop on "Action Blocks!"
I had always wanted to participate in something at Esalen, so
I signed up. I was surprised to discover that I was already
a focuser (although not yet a Focuser!), having unconsciously
used these skills in my own therapy.
Back in San Diego, I tried to find someone to Focus with. After
a year, I realized that the only way I was going to find Focusing
partners was if I trained them myself, so I began traveling
to Berkeley to take Ann's weekend workshops and then to study
with her and Diana Marder (of Huntington Beach) to be a trainer.
I was certified by the Focusing Institute in 1998, although
I had been teaching others in San Diego in 1996. When Reva Bernstein
moved to San Diego from Chicago in 1997, I gained another mentor.
I recently started studying Tibetan Buddhist meditation, and
find that it has deeply enriched my Focusing experience and
teaching -- and that Focusing has made my path into meditation
easier.
I love teaching Focusing. I love watching the light of discovery
go on in the eyes of a new Focuser.
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